- If you like, you can add Kitchen Bouquet to give the soup a brownish-color. It does not change the flavor.
- You can cook all of the vegetables in the microwave for a minute or two (just until softened) so that it doesn’t take so long for them to cook – or you can just put them in the crock pot and let them cook all day. The longer the soup cooks, the better it tastes.
- Rinsing the beans removes the starch, sugar and salt from the beans. If you don’t rinse the beans before you put them in the soup, the soup will be thicker and the starch may change the flavor a bit. The choice is yours.
My recent blog post on family food favorites mentioned a story about grandson Remy and ham. Well, Remy and his younger brother Ollie, visited yesterday – and ham played a role — so the time is right to tell the story.
Ten years ago, we were preparing to go to our son’s house in Silver Bay for dinner on Christmas day. As often happens, I spend the holiday season shopping and getting ready, and then I am worn out or sick by the time the holiday arrives. That year it was my lung disease acting up and joint pain. (Little did I know that I would have my first heart stents less than a year later.) I could barely walk and had to sit on a pillow to ride anywhere.
But things weren’t normal at our son’s house, either. You see, they were expecting a baby – and the baby decided that Christmas Eve day was a good day to enter this world. There wouldn’t be much cooking done at their house. They were busy bringing a baby home. And ‘Dad’ was busy taking care of the three kids at home.
So, we improvised. We bought a ham, some buns, Old Dutch potato chips (a long-time family favorite) and a gallon of milk (a family staple) and headed for Silver Bay on Christmas Day.
When we arrived, there was much excitement about the new baby. Little Remy looked a little overwhelmed. Then Grandpa handed him the ham – which he could barely hold – and said: “Look what I brought you.” A big grin spread across Remy’s face. And he took Grandpa’s word literally. It was his ham – which he pronounced h-ahhh-m. Remy proudly showed his Mom the ham. After a little persuasion, he agreed we could cook it for dinner. It was soon clear that Remy loves h-ahhh-m.
From that time forward, we take a ham to Remy every time we visit. A few times we forgot to get a ham and had to stop at the last minute, usually somewhere along the North Shore. But every time Grandpa gives him a ham, we get that big Remy grin. It is the best!
Sometimes they cook the ham for the meal and sometimes it goes in their refrigerator or freezer. We also keep the tradition going by making sure we have ham when we have family gatherings at our house.
What did the boys get to eat at our house yesterday? Ham, of course, and they ate a lot.
Now, this may seem like a fun little story but why do I tell it to you? It’s just this – it is important to plan for details so you make enduring memories. Sometimes the small things are the most memorable – and they don’t take a lot of extra time or effort.
For more on how to create quality memories, I suggest reading The Power of Moments by Chip Heath and Dan Heath. This book provides ways to turn ordinary moments into extraordinary moments – in other words, to enhance memories. The Heaths did not ask me to mention them; I doubt they will even know. I just happen to be a big fan of their books. I think I have all of them. This book, which is relatively recent (released Fall 2017), captures the way I approach events – whether a quick lunch or a public meeting. I am glad someone put this concept into words — although the Heath brothers do a much better job explaining the concept.
Thanks for reading!! I hope you will return!!
And now for something completely different. My recent posts have been pretty serious so it is time to have some fun.
I recently posted a picture of one of our dinner meals – Chicken Cashew Casserole. Several people requested the recipe (so here it is, at the bottom of this post).
Then I started thinking about family food favorites and decided to ask our kids about it – what was their favorite? what did they not like?
Interestingly, our daughter said she wasn’t a fan of my hot dishes – except for two of them. She hated carrots, beets, mushroom soup, and green peppers – but now she eats them all. Oldest son mentioned mushroom soup, also, recalling the time where all we had for a meal was mushroom soup – and we all got sick!! I still don’t like it and rarely eat mushrooms (and then only when it is a small part of a dish).
Her favorite foods: Old Dutch potato chips (yes, specifically, Old Dutch), kohrabi (introduced to the family by her Grandpa Art), olives, radishes (the whole family loves radishes), bean with bacon soup, Hamburger Rice Hotdish and Tator Tot Hotdish (with green beans). Another of her favorites – and everyone else – was fresh-baked bread made by Grandma Edna. I am not good at baking bread; I am forever washing my hands to get the flour off – which doesn’t make for good bread making.
Our youngest son had only two responses – grilled pork chops and deviled eggs (another family holiday favorite). I usually use two dozen eggs – which makes 48 deviled eggs for a family gathering; rarely are there any left. This son claims he is overweight from his love of pork chops. I think there might be more to that story. He didn’t have any items he didn’t like – so that might be why he is a bit overweight.
Favorite family meals include:
- Hamburger Rice Hot Dish
- Chicken Dumpling Soup
- Tator Tot Hot Dish
- Chicken Cashew Casserole
- Oatmeal Raisin Cookies
Every once in a while, I will post a blog with another recipe – and perhaps the story of the Pork Chop Investigation, or Remy and his Ham, etc.
I hope you enjoy this blog. Thanks for reading.
Chicken Cashew Casserole
(Note; You can substitute tuna for the chicken)
1 1/2 cup of cashew, halved or chopped
1 cup chopped celery
1/2 onion, chopped
2 cans cream of chicken or cream of mushroom soup
1/2 can of milk (more if needed)
3 – 10 to 12 oz. cans of canned chicken (or tuna), drained, rinsed and broken apart
1 12-oz. bag of chow mein noodles
Salt and pepper to taste.
Soy Sauce (optional)
Chop onion and celery; saute in fry pan until soft and let cool.
Chop cashews and put in large mixing bowl.
Add chicken or tuna, which has been rinsed and broken apart.
Add celery and onion.
Empty canned soup into a bowl and stir in milk.
Pour into bowl with other ingredients and stir. You can add more milk, just a little at a time, if the mixture is hard to stir.
Add the bag of chow mein noodles and stir.
Put the mixture into a ceramic baking pan that has been sprayed with cooking oil. Cover and bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes. Take the cover off for the last five minutes to brown the top of the casserole.
Serve warm with soy sauce as a condiment.
Warning: This casserole is very rich – so don’t overdo!! Also, this makes a lot – so you may want to use smaller amounts if it’s just for a few.